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What would you do if your husband told you he wanted to be a woman?

I was listening to the radio today and the interviewer was speaking to a married couple - and the reason for the interview - to talk about the fact that the man had recently told his wife that he no longer wished to be a man.  

He had decided it was a woman he now wanted to be - operation and all!!!

DING DING DING!! Can you imagine that?  What a shock it would be for you, the wife, trying to get your head around your whole married life.

The man/woman (well she is a woman now) is the father of two young girls (incredibly devoted), was a Captain in the Army (position still be negotiated now he is a woman) and seemingly a great husband (ummmmmmm). 

The wife sounded shattered and sad - trying to come to terms with how she plays a part in all of this.  There she is married to the man of her dreams to living with someone who looks like him but has longer hair than her and wearing a dress.  No wonder she sounded sad!!!  

I wondered how the wife would cope in the future.  Things are going fine for her husband/woman as it is all his/her way!  He/She has experienced marriage, the creation of two beautiful little souls, and managed to carve out a 'masculine' job for himself.  Now he wants change!  Now he wants to be a woman because he always felt he wanted to be a woman. 

Who wants to be a woman that is not already a woman!!! It's not the 'bees knees' you know!!!!

Anyhow, he felt like it, he wanted it, he had the hormones and the surgery!! 

His dear wife is a saint in my books as she stays to support him and cope amidst the tatters of her marriage.  But without him at the moment she has nothing and would be all alone in her own worst nightmare!  She says she doesn't want to leave the 'marriage' because she still loves him and cares about him.  But where would she go!!!  She has a roof over her head and arms of love that still encircle her and that is at least something!

But I am thinking (and it is just a presumption mind) that the minute the 'husband/woman' finds himself a bloke he/she would be off like a shot and the wife will be hurt yet again!!!  Or is he/she now a Lesbian and want a woman!!!!  Boy oh boy!!!!  What a muddle!

So my advice to his wife, think about yourself in all of this, and the kids.  Go and fulfil your life as you would like it to be.  At the moment while you are grieving the loss of your husband, having someone who is sort of your 'husband' around, is probably comforting and makes everything seem alright for now. 

Go to their website here and let me know what you think!!!! 

It's called Just Like You, but I beg to differ!!!!     

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Or read about my attending the Mars and Venus Conference where a transexual spoke at one of the presentations and get his heart felt story. 

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Gigi ! | Monday, January 16, 2012 | Comments (2) | Trackbacks (0) | Permalink | back to top

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Amazing story i feel the wife has to take control of her life which is swirling around her cannot imagine how i would cope in such a situation. Peoples lives are sure intersting
Posted: 17-Jan-2012 05:19 PM | Marilyn |
It is interesting what goes on out there isnt it. Sunny
Posted: 25-Jan-2012 04:42 PM | Anonymous |

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